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Facebook FAQs

Answers to three FAQs:

1) Yes, I’m on Facebook. *

2) No, I don’t “friend” my students. **

3) I’m really not sure what to make of this:

In the wake of scrutiny of the hot social network by Attorney General Richard Blumenthal of Connecticut, his New York state counterpart, Andrew M. Cuomo, has subpoenaed Facebook asking for information on how it handles complaints regarding the inappropriate solicitation of under-age users.

I have to think about this issue in two ways, which is the problem. On the one hand, I think the idea of going after Facebook because of what some of its users use it for is kind of ridiculous. Yes, the internet can be a dangerous place. Yes, there are sketchy people who want nothing more than to bother (and worse) teenagers and children. Yes, the internet makes it a little easier for them to do that. But at the same time, our students know far more about the internet than we do, and if we spend our time babying and coddling them while they’re in high school, there’s no way they’ll be able to fend for themselves later.

But then, I realize that as a teacher, I have to be concerned about what my students are getting themselves into that could harm them. One reason I don’t want my students to try and “friend” (when did that become a verb, anyway?) me is that when they do, they allow me to look at their profiles, and it’s so tempting for me to do so and make sure that they’re not doing anything stupid. And then we have to have the awkward conversation the following morning about Why It’s Not A Good Idea To Friend Your Teacher When Your Profile Picture Shows You Drinking Beer Right From The Pitcher.

So what’s the deal? Should Facebook do more to protect its users? Is there anything weird about “friending” your students? Is Facebook some sort of new paradigm, or is it going to fade out soon?

Added: A couple of pieces worth reading about social networking as a sociological phenomenon: “Virtual Friendship and the New Narcissism” and “Viewing American class divisions through Facebook and MySpace.”

* I joined a while ago, but didn’t really use it for much until I got back from SUISS this summer and found that most of my friends from over there were using it to communicate. Email is pretty much dead if you’re in your 20s or below. Since then, I’ve gotten hooked, I admit, on a couple of the external apps: Scrabulous and iLike (which I use to dedicate the worst songs I can think of to an old friend of mine who I rarely see in real life).

** So just stop trying, okay?

Filed under: Matters Educational, Matters Technological

Living With Music

I discovered this today, but I think it’s been around a while, and I’ve just been missing it. Anyway, the New York Times runs a great blog called Papercuts, which is about literary news, personalities, new books, etc.

Exciting, but not terribly cool.

However, what is cool is that on Wednesdays, they ask “a writer or some other kind of book-world personage” for a playlist of their top songs of the moment, with explanations. This week’s featured personage is Miranda July, who directed a film I loved (Me and You and Everyone We Know) and has a new (and awesomely-titled) book of short stories just now out (Nobody Belongs Here More Than You).

Anyway, I’m not really a book-world personage, unless you count the public library as part of the book-world. But here’s my playlist. Hopefully you’ll write your own playlist on your own blog (let’s say ten songs, shall we?) and drop the link in the comments box here, or initiate a trackback, or let me know in some way what’s on your playlist. At the very least, it’ll be a nice diversion from dealing with the pros and cons (mostly cons) of five-paragraph essays and No Child Left Behind.

These aren’t in order of preference, by the way. They’re in order of flow–I’ve made and listened to this playlist in preparation for this post. That’s dedication.

1. J-Live, “Nights Like This”: When a suburban geek like me starts a playlist with a hip-hop track, your poseur radar should activate. J-Live’s great–he’s a former NYC public school teacher and one of the most underrated MCs out there. He dishes out internal rhymes as if he doesn’t even notice he’s doing it–”Nights like this I don’t whisper raindrops / No need to anticipate / My words hold enough weight to make it precipitate / The barren I fertilize, the crooked I set straight.” Even better, though, is the way this track sounds. There’s some kind of keyboard thing going on that captures that late-night mood J-Live is after. A great instance of production enhancing the lyrics.

2. Bloc Party, “I Still Remember”: Bloc Party’s really good at angry, but I tend to like their sentimental songs better. They have one called “This Modern Love” (off Silent Alarm) that’s the most wistful disco song since Bowie’s “Let’s Dance.” “I Still Remember,” though, is even more intense. Hearing Kele Okereke sing “And on that teacher’s training day / We wrote our names on every train / Laughed at the people off to work” over a driving beat is devastating.

3. Built to Spill, “Car”: It’s always best to follow up two emotional/maudlin songs with a catchy singalong. “Car” is stealthy–it starts mellow and moody, then just hits you with a great fist-pumper of a chorus. The peak, though, is the second verse. I can’t even explain why. Just listen to the song and tell me I’m right.

4. The Hold Steady, “Stuck Between Stations”: Yes. Rock. I could’ve picked any Hold Steady songs, but this one is good for an English teacher’s blog, what with the On the Road reference in the first line. There’s been a lot of ink spilled about how the Hold Steady is the best American band out there at the moment, and I’m not going to try and disabuse anyone of that notion. “She said, ‘You’re pretty good with words / But words won’t save your life,’ / And they didn’t, so he died.” I bet Craig Finn was insufferable in his high school English classes.

5. Gogol Bordello, “Illumination”: Okay. Eugene Hutz sounds a bit like Borat. And this song is full of ridiculous yearbook quote-esque platitudes. But I challenge you not to spend some time learning the words to this one, just so you can sing along at the top of your lungs when you think nobody can hear you.

6. Roger Dean Young & the Tin Cup, “Stettler II”: I have no idea what a “stettler” is. In fact, I thought it was a typo for “settler” for months. I do know, though, that Roger Dean Young is one of the best songwriters that nobody’s ever heard. He sings like a Cormac McCarthy novel reads, and he’s got a rotating band (the Tin Cup) of what I imagine to be urban cowboy types who spend a lot of time drinking coffee and shopping for trumpet mutes.

7. Lucinda Williams, “Pineola”: This is what would’ve happened if Flannery O’Connor wrote vicious country songs instead of short stories. A kid commits suicide and the narrator is stuck trying to deal with it. The beauty of this song is that Williams’s narrator never attempts to make sense of the event. She just has to get along.

8. Marah, “My Heart is the Bums on the Street”: I had to put on something to lighten the mood after “Pineola.” I came up with this one, an ode to Philadelphia from a heartbroken kid who can’t do anything but catalog his memories over a Motown beat. Also, it’s got the second Kerouac reference of the playlist, which might set a world record.

9. Mike Doughty, “Looking at the World from the Bottom of a Well”: Continuing the theme of depressing song titles matched with not-terribly-depressing songs, Doughty tries to make you cry but just gets you pumped up with the catchiest song you’ve heard since “Hey Ya.” “Let’s get down to business now,” indeed.

10. Wilco, “What Light”: I didn’t know how to end this list, so I’ll pick my favorite new-ish song. It’s the single off Wilco’s latest album. If you like Wilco, you’ll like this one. If you don’t like Wilco, this won’t convert you. But they’ve been one of my favorite bands for years, and every time they release an album I listen to it until I can’t stand it anymore. I’m not quite at that point yet.

Filed under: Matters Literary, Matters Musical & Artistic

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